# Tomodachi Life Sweetie Personality (Softie)

Source: https://tomodachilifepersonalities.com/sweetie

Last updated: 2026-11-10

**Sweetie** (called Softie in Europe) is one of the four **Considerate** personalities in Tomodachi Life: Living the Dream. To get it, set **Movement 1, Speech 1, Energy 8, Thinking 8**, counting each slider's 8 steps from the left. 100 slider combinations give a Sweetie; the Overall slider does not matter.

## What a Sweetie Mii is like

Soft-hearted and sentimental. Picks up on how everyone around them feels.

Sweetie belongs to the Considerate group (Easy-going in Europe), together with [Cheerleader](/cheerleader), [Buddy](/buddy), [Daydreamer](/daydreamer). Considerate Miis use the yellow and orange color palette on their clothes, room and profile card.

In Europe and Australia the same personality is called **Softie**. Guides that say Softie and guides that say Sweetie mean the same thing.

## Every slider setting that gives Sweetie

The game adds Movement and Speech into one score and Energy and Thinking into another. Sweetie needs both scores in the right band, so there are two small tables to check. Pick any pair from the first and any pair from the second.

### Movement and Speech

| If Speech is | Movement can be |
| --- | --- |
| 1 | 1 to 4 |
| 2 | 1 to 3 |
| 3 | 1 to 2 |
| 4 | 1 |
| 5 | none |
| 6 | none |
| 7 | none |
| 8 | none |

### Energy and Thinking

| If Thinking is | Energy can be |
| --- | --- |
| 1 | none |
| 2 | none |
| 3 | none |
| 4 | none |
| 5 | 8 |
| 6 | 7 to 8 |
| 7 | 6 to 8 |
| 8 | 5 to 8 |

Steps are counted 1 to 8 from the left end of each slider. A quick, safe choice is Movement 1, Speech 1, Energy 8, Thinking 8.

## What Sweetie turns into when you move a slider

Sweetie sits in column 1 of 4 and row 4 of 4 on the personality chart (counting from the slow, polite side and from the flat, serious side). Its neighbors are one band away:

- With a higher Movement or Speech: [Cheerleader](/cheerleader) (Optimist)
- With a lower Energy or Thinking: [Buddy](/buddy) (Carer)

Speech and Thinking jump by two points between steps 4 and 5, so one click there is the most common reason a Mii lands on a neighbor instead of Sweetie.

## FAQ

### What sliders make a Sweetie in Tomodachi Life?

Movement 1, Speech 1, Energy 8 and Thinking 8 is one setting that works. There are 100 working combinations in total; the tables on this page list all of them.

### Is Sweetie the same as Softie?

Yes. Softie is the European and Australian name for Sweetie. The personality works the same way.

### Can I change a Mii's personality later?

Yes. You can edit a resident's personality after creation, so a result you don't like is not permanent.